tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post5585938280647983658..comments2023-05-31T10:52:31.302-04:00Comments on Gwenny Penny: StrugglingGwen @ Gwenny Pennyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11885824702813908626noreply@blogger.comBlogger48125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-4801112662292389692012-10-10T23:05:29.556-04:002012-10-10T23:05:29.556-04:00I never actually wrote a post like this but it sum...I never actually wrote a post like this but it sums up so much of what I have been feeling for the past year. Once it was so fun to blog, so cool to create and share. To find inspiration, meet new friends, and get to know them through blog posts. But then as I got bigger and began adding the business side to blogging the fun began to fall away. It felt like a job and not one I'd necessarily pick. I've been struggling to find a balance and while I am sad you can understand my dilema all too much, it is nice to know others see the same drawbacks. My ah ha moment came after I had my son. I knew I didn't want to have to spend all his napping moments try to keep up with bloggy stuff. I wanted to scrap and do things, like can you imagine...read a book?! I have felt a lot better since slowing down.Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18259780683037042533noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-32561812604577482382012-07-30T13:03:22.068-04:002012-07-30T13:03:22.068-04:00real life...go girl!real life...go girl!{northern cottage}https://www.blogger.com/profile/02042071719870573273noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-67930648424070467782012-07-26T23:32:39.664-04:002012-07-26T23:32:39.664-04:00Oh my...I haven't been reading much lately. I ...Oh my...I haven't been reading much lately. I am so proud of you for making a difficult decision. I know you won't be gone forever and surely not forgotten. I have struggled too and feel like it eats my time both reading and writing. I was working for a while and have some down time now so reading again. I know that for me if I sit at the computer I can pass hours in a moment and once I stand up I am not even motivated to do much creating. Once in a while I catch myself wondering what to look at next and realizing that nothing is that important if I have to search for something to look at. <br /><br />I have been considering weening myself from my technology a while. It would help me in many ways, especially in the area of focusing on the moment. I would probably be more active as well if I am sitting in this chair less!<br /><br />Good luck and stay in touch...PinkGrannyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13396185972224985608noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-35216360370692237552012-07-13T18:02:04.514-04:002012-07-13T18:02:04.514-04:00A great entry for sure!!! And I can relate. I do...A great entry for sure!!! And I can relate. I do not blog that much--months go by sometimes. I think I have 3 followers and that's OK because it is just a place for me. I commend you for giving yourself permission to do this. Enjoy life and your family! Thanks for a great site and I just wanted to let you know that I mentioned you in my blog---(but do not feel like you need to respond!!) Be well Cathy<br />http://justwannacraft.blogspot.com/2012/07/musings-and-ramblings.htmlCathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09499362932958834394noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-38723414117204572062012-06-22T13:18:57.508-04:002012-06-22T13:18:57.508-04:00Thank you. (if you can't tell, I'm behind ...Thank you. (if you can't tell, I'm behind even in my blog READING these days) <br /><br />My blog never really "took off" and I know I haven't given it the time or energy that it needs to be successful-- and EVEN SO I have been feeling this EXACT same way. After stressing about it for a bit I realized that I'm OK with only posting when I feel like it instead of trying to keep some sort of schedule. And I'm OK with the fact that my only followers are my actual "in person" friends.<br /><br />I will keep you in my Google reader to see what fun projects you've come up with that you want to share and I thank you for all the inspiration prior. <br /><br />See you when we see you... :)Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10783615793618260921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-19538140443634535682012-06-22T10:17:32.718-04:002012-06-22T10:17:32.718-04:00Good for you! I can read that you have put a lot o...Good for you! I can read that you have put a lot of thought in this and it is the very best decision. When my kids were young I used to give courses to moms in doll making. So much time went into that. I missed some real quantity and quality time with my kids and there is no way I can get that back. So yes, it is good, very very good that you came to this conclusion. Enjoying your family is so important! Have fun (((:Simone de Klerkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14229832556762075177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-81351144989002428582012-06-22T09:04:42.681-04:002012-06-22T09:04:42.681-04:00It sounds like you've got a healthy outlook on...It sounds like you've got a healthy outlook on the situation, and I'm so glad. You're right, it it hard to step back and start doing things without thinking about how it'll look on your blog. It's hard to find that balance between blogging and enjoying the moment but I'm sure you're on the right track. Have a great summer and I'm sure we'll bump into one another somewhere in blogland!Fowl Single Filehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07052036579453058084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-53229883775496191272012-06-22T07:15:58.660-04:002012-06-22T07:15:58.660-04:00such good writing - I too still love to blog - whe...such good writing - I too still love to blog - when I have the time and energy - and wanting to spend more time creating and not feeling guilty if I don't make it into a tutorial. Thank you -Bless by Tonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10867675200901834802noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-69720404358434727922012-06-20T22:58:49.554-04:002012-06-20T22:58:49.554-04:00I think you are making a very wise decision; you c...I think you are making a very wise decision; you can't buy back these years with you children! I hope you will enjoy this very precious time in your life!CindyC.wannabequilterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12182912495364121972noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-12817306617995872762012-06-19T23:44:27.001-04:002012-06-19T23:44:27.001-04:00here here! I totally get where you are coming fro...here here! I totally get where you are coming from.....remember, you are your own 'boss' when it comes to blogs, there are no deadlines, no demands. Will look forward to peeks into your projects, but will enjoy it even more knowing they are truly your heart and not a to do list item!Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10158119775645725096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-35063164580390548652012-06-19T23:14:55.151-04:002012-06-19T23:14:55.151-04:00Good for you. Blogging isn't worth missing out...Good for you. Blogging isn't worth missing out on life. Best of luck to you (and hopefully we'll see you soon!)Jen @ My Own Roadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02343962283317199237noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-14314895547743775702012-06-17T14:49:17.206-04:002012-06-17T14:49:17.206-04:00Good for you! That's how blogging should be. ...Good for you! That's how blogging should be. I'm not interested in earning a living from my blog, I've enjoyed making on-line friends and I know they'll still be my friends if I only blog once a month. Enjoy the process and blog about it when you feel like it.Wendyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05167739272302561918noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-89426446932893116902012-06-17T03:01:51.679-04:002012-06-17T03:01:51.679-04:00You are completly, totally right! Go ahead with yo...You are completly, totally right! Go ahead with your life, live it like you want or need. Don't care about us, because we will be waiting for you :D<br />Love, KerstinKerstin M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/14700864511365708352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-67637230990827524702012-06-15T06:57:53.569-04:002012-06-15T06:57:53.569-04:00Great post! I totally know what you mean and wher...Great post! I totally know what you mean and where you're coming from. Perhaps you could just post the photos of the projects that you complete (in their final form). Personally, I find a lot of inspiration just from seeing what other people do...especially all of your projects b/c you're so creative! Thank you.LAPLibrarianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10953422055735346163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-47959333338541808142012-06-15T03:46:05.961-04:002012-06-15T03:46:05.961-04:00I had noticed that you'd stepped back a bit (a...I had noticed that you'd stepped back a bit (and totally understand why you have). Sharing a post or project that you love here and there, rather than feeling compelled to make/do just so you have something to blog about, makes for a better blog anyway. I look forward to the occasional post from a happy, lower-stress Mom!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10389229897160951522noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-10392256153136976982012-06-15T00:40:41.953-04:002012-06-15T00:40:41.953-04:00I stopped blogging a few months ago and it's b...I stopped blogging a few months ago and it's been a relief. I sometimes wish I could show the world the cool things I'm making and I miss contact with the crafty world. But I'm doing better at the things that count and that's what really makes me happy.Celestehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16543792501735073527noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-18511653015150458632012-06-14T20:27:52.160-04:002012-06-14T20:27:52.160-04:00I feel the same way and ultimately decided my blog...I feel the same way and ultimately decided my blog was something I only want to do when I have the time...I blog for me...so I don't forget what is happening in life. The blog isn't my life. That being said, I do love your blog and like seeing what you've created, you are very talented. I hope you find your balance, and I will look forward to seeing a new post from you in my feed...whenever that is...Danielle Bartranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12802217083754393703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-56712324802222654622012-06-14T13:59:45.102-04:002012-06-14T13:59:45.102-04:00Good for you! My blog is only eight months old and...Good for you! My blog is only eight months old and I have asked the same questions and come up with the same answers as you. And I don't even have young kids at home anymore. My motto is "Blog Responsibly."Calistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12372690042912769080noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-70244062042429127162012-06-14T12:49:19.258-04:002012-06-14T12:49:19.258-04:00This completely resonates with me. Keeping up a bl...This completely resonates with me. Keeping up a blog is a lot of work. I kept a journal as a kid and was so frustrated that it would take me so long to write about what happened during the day when I really just should have been enjoying life. I've definitely felt the same way you described feeling in this post. My husband and I don't have kids yet, but I would like to spend more time sewing and creating rather than reading every blog written by everyone whose work I've ever liked and trying to figure out what I'm going to blog about. I hope you find the balance you need and have a wonderful summer with your family.Claire Jainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15040271123285093923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-2143096767189579162012-06-14T12:12:28.265-04:002012-06-14T12:12:28.265-04:00Enjoy every moment of the summer! You seem to hav...Enjoy every moment of the summer! You seem to have a very reliable inner compass, and it is leading you toward your family - how great it is that you know what you need and are doing it! I have so much respect for that.Catskill Quilterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15327243220995371935noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-91023227877753873642012-06-14T12:10:19.591-04:002012-06-14T12:10:19.591-04:00I so often wonder how you bloggers do it!! I follo...I so often wonder how you bloggers do it!! I follow quite a few blogs and really enjoy the posts, tutorials, creativity, and all that great stuff which I appreciate whole heartedly. You shouldn't have to stress over something that is supposed to be a pleasure, so you do what you must... we as followers, will understand. Hugs!Michele Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09807384185241255549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-76653643287100537162012-06-14T11:07:38.162-04:002012-06-14T11:07:38.162-04:00I think one thing "bloggers" may not com...I think one thing "bloggers" may not completely understand is; your readers really do understand how much time and dedication it takes to post frequently, and I for one do not envy any of you. I am amazed that "bloggers" take time away from their families to dedicate themselves to people they don't even know. I've definitely learned a lot in the past from reading blogs, but now with pinterest; you can learn to do anything! You are wise (before it's too late) to realize your family comes first; they grow up soo quickly and then they're gone on their own. I think the worst thing for a grown child to say is, "you didn't have time for me when I was younger." <br />Good luck to you, and stick to your guns, family first! I won't unsubscribe from your blog like I have from so many, because if and when you decide to post again, I'll be an interested reader.<br />DesiDesihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17305193030356715707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-6909910018881933752012-06-14T10:32:01.144-04:002012-06-14T10:32:01.144-04:00Hey Chica! Just yesterday I discovered all these ...Hey Chica! Just yesterday I discovered all these blogs by some young quilters in Utah and I was overwhelmed with all the work they do! I subscribe to tons of blogs, mostly for the pictures of projects! I have totally loved reading your blog (and looking at the pictures). I have no idea how a blog works because I have no intention of starting a blog -- but lately I've been thinking about if I had a blog, what would I write about? I'm thinking of starting a journal of my reactions to blogs, books, whatever - for myself. Too many of you energetic young women have taken a step back from your blogs for me to ever think it would be a good idea for me. I commend you for recognizing your needs and taking care of them -- some of us -- I think especially my generation of women who worked because it was politically incorrect to be a stay at home mom -- took a long time to figure it out. Thank God we raised smart daughters! I look forward to your occasional posts!Queen Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02534845039850729678noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-1176263288959223822012-06-14T09:35:43.188-04:002012-06-14T09:35:43.188-04:00I will miss your blog, but I can go back and re-re...I will miss your blog, but I can go back and re-read it. Enjoy yourself with no regrets,Pattyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02463641655925829074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6926745918748541191.post-14067812619952551622012-06-14T09:07:50.320-04:002012-06-14T09:07:50.320-04:00Good for your Gwen. I think you are a wise woman a...Good for your Gwen. I think you are a wise woman and agree with all of your feelings. I have them too. I'm glad you gave yourself permission to step back and reevaluate. Now go have fun with your family, sew when you feel like it, take a picture because you want to and enjoy life. :) xoJennifer Mathis of Ellison Lanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17948038420636643227noreply@blogger.com